The Science of Cooking & Eating – Weights and Measures,
Developing Shopping Skills, Menu Design and Planning Skills
 
Cooking is not just about throwing things into a pan or oven and something magically
“happens” and tastes great.  Cooking is chemistry, physics, math and biology all blended
into amazing culinary experiences.  Setting chemistry, physics and biology aside for the
time being, cooking presents wonderful opportunities for children to learn math, weights
and measures as well as developing critical thinking skills in young minds.

Every science lab (and kitchen) needs metrology for making accurate measurements.  
The more high-tech metrology in my personal kitchen consists of a digital scale
(equipped with both metric and English modes), thermometers and chronometers (a.k.a.
timers).  Throw in some mixing bowls, spoons, a whisk, some pans and you have a fully
functional cooking laboratory where your children can learn and have fun at the same
time.  

Hand-eye coordination starts developing from the time the doctor slaps the butt of your
child and you hear its voice for the first time.  It doesn’t take long before their little hands
are grabbing everything to see if it fits in their mouth.  At that time, they are not only
learning hand-eye coordination, but also proportion.  Yes, their hands and feet will fit in
their mouths until they grow a bit bigger, however, I can sometimes still get my foot in my
mouth but it is never intentional.

The concept of proportion actually develops into adulthood.  For example, an
experienced bartender intuitively knows with great precision what a “shot” is when making
drinks, as does a chef when measuring out small proportions such a teaspoons and
tablespoons.  Sometimes we chefs have sophisticated equipment helping us make larger
volume measurements such as the measuring cups and spoons.

It is important for parents to recognize the abstract mathematical concepts develop long
after language because those things reside in a different part of the brain that develops
later in childhood compared to language.  Pushing your child to be the next
astrophysicist is like pushing wet rope uphill in a straight line.  It just isn’t going to
happen.  Who cares if they can calculate a triple integral if they can’t explain it.  Instead,
focus on those things developing earlier, primarily language (spoken and reading).  
Again, refer to my list of
age appropriate tasks in the kitchen as your guide.  

As your child/children develop, they will not only become more spatially adept, but they
also will learn order of operation which serves as the foundation for developing critical
thinking skills. By age 10 to 13, children can read, understand order of operation, follow
a series of instructions and plan simple snacks and meals.  This is the age where you
can comfortably start challenging them.  However, do so intently while watching their
behavior, not their performance.  If they experience frustration or boredom, STOP, and
revisit the task at a later date.  If you see the eye-roll, stop and discuss with them if and
what they want to learn.  Let your children be your guide to them.  In other words,
parents remain teachable and become students of their children’s abilities and
aspirations.  They will pick up on this and appreciate you more.

Here are some tips to helping your child develop into a huge help in the kitchen, not in
any particular order:

  • Help them develop a sense of ownership in the family meal.  If they want it, they
    help make it.  
  • Start slow and let them show you what they know.  Many children are visual
    learners and learn more than you would imagine just by observation.  In addition,
    you are less likely to bore them showing them what they already know.
  • Expect spills and plan accordingly, in time and ingredients.
  • Instead of just correct¬ing a wrong answer, focus on the process to help them
    become an autonomous learner.
  • As soon as they grasp addition/subtraction and volume, let them hold the money
    and start making comparisons between products in the grocery store.  When my
    oldest son was 13, I gave him $50 and told him he had to buy groceries for the two
    of us for a week.  He did so successfully.
  • Engage your children in the menu planning.  Do not limit your children to the
    selection of meals, but also how certain ingredients can be used across several
    meals (such as making an Italian red sauce that can be used in spaghetti, pizza,
    lasagna, etc.).  This helps them develop critical thinking skills.
  • Communicate that their culinary competency is a normal part of their development
    and life.
  • Help them develop a vision of independence in the kitchen.  This will carry over
    into other areas of their lives in big ways.
  • In the early years, don’t push.  Allow them to grow into their role of Jr. Chef.  In the
    long-run, it will minimize headaches later.
  • Don’t hover.  Allow them as much freedom and latitude in the kitchen that safety
    allows.
  • Don’t laud false praise on them; they see right through it.
  • Cook together for enjoyment.
  • Let them cook for their friends.
  • Never underestimate them.  This is the greatest tragedy parents (including me)
    have made.

It is my hope and desire my articles in this series have been helpful to you.  If so, let me
know.  Send an email to info@thymeforachef.com

Blessings,
Chef David Hall
Thyme for a Chef, LLC
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